Free asks: I was in relationship with this guy for the past 1 month and I’ve known him from the past 5 years, but it wasn’t so close before. He always keeps messaging me and says that he loves me, but when I initially kissed him, then all those feelings went a little less. Moreover, his parents are mad at him cause he doesn’t study! He didn’t spend New Years with me. I felt bad but instead I messaged him, keeping my ego aside. But he read the message and didn’t reply for days! I even asked him later if everything was okay? But he didn’t even reply to that. What should I do?

Free asks: I was in relationship with this guy for the past 1 month and I’ve known him from the past 5 years, but it wasn’t so close before. He always keeps messaging me and says that he loves me, but when I initially kissed him, then all those feelings went a little less. Moreover, his parents are mad at him cause he doesn’t study! He didn’t spend New Years with me. I felt bad but instead I messaged him, keeping my ego aside. But he read the message and didn’t reply for days! I even asked him later if everything was okay? But he didn’t even reply to that. What should I do?
Hi Free –   So if I’m understanding correctly, for almost five years he’s been pursuing you, telling you he loves you, and such.  And then a month ago you two finally kissed, and since then he’s been distant?   Well you may be right to focus on his studies ... read more
Published on 2019-02-10