Ask Shirelle

  • How to heal emotional trauma in the body
    Scarlett4 asks: I am still single, and my ex-boyfriend got married to a girl of his mother’s choice and now doing all the things that I shared him that we will do after our wedding. He even stole our honeymoon spot — I felt bad, I tried to cry but ... read more
    Published on 2021-05-10
  • If a person is pushing for my attention, are they actually interested in me too?
    Ars asks: I liked a girl from a very long time ago whom I know about and she also knows about me and over the years I fallen for her. Then one day I confessed my feelings to her, that I like her and I am in love and all, ... read more
    Published on 2021-05-03
  • Will a relationship be doomed due to age difference or body type?
    Awerpia asks: I really love this girl yet I sometimes question myself if I’m making the right decision. She’s 3 years older than me and I sometimes get scared that she might outgrow me. If really she will be able to respect me as a husband rather than like a ... read more
    Published on 2021-04-26
  • Should one be the “giver” in a relationship?
    hey hey peg asks: I have been dating this guy for 9 months and lately I haven’t been feeling that great about my relationship. I just want to know if I am in an emotionally healthy relationship or not. Since we started dating this guy has stopped texting me first. ... read more
    Published on 2021-04-19
  • How to tell if your relationship is getting more mature or stale
    PERFECTION asks: It’s been 10 months already with my beloved girlfriend and some things are kind of  different. We still hang out, have dates, kiss and all those intimate things, but in social media it’s kind of lowkey. She’s not mentioning me that much, yet she still posts something about ... read more
    Published on 2021-04-10
  • How to move past an idealized love that didn’t work out
    Icarus to Fly asks: I deeply love a girl. I had been in relationship with her. She wanted a break last summer. Since then we talked every day on regular basis. But now she is into a senior. They are together. What should I do to earn her back?Recently I ... read more
    Published on 2021-04-04
  • What to do when your parent tells you your relationship won’t last
    Awerpia asks: I’m very disturbed and confused. I don’t know what my mother wants from me. Today she smiles and asks about my girlfriend and the next day she’s saying all sorts of things. Mother has only seen pictures of my girlfriend. And from her attitude she seems willing to ... read more
    Published on 2021-03-22
  • How to deal with parents not accepting your bisexuality
    Vedanova asks: I’m bisexual. Yesterday I came out to father. I went to his office and I could feel my heart beating very fast. I was very nervous. He was watching a movie on TV so I waited some time and then we went to get some food. When we ... read more
    Published on 2021-03-15
  • What to do when you’re attached to someone with ambivalent feelings
    Rebel Kid asks: Lately I’ve been really upset. I met a girl online 7 months ago and we both like each other. 6 months ago she asked me out but broke up with me two days later because she thought we do not know each other enough and that she’s ... read more
    Published on 2021-03-08
  • He’s a Tramp! … the hardest quality to attain
    Over all the years I’ve run this website, I’ve talked about lots of movies – some good, some great, some maybe not so great.  But I’ve always insisted on one being my favorite.  My favorite love story, my favorite musical, my favorite everything.  And with the sexiest, most charming leading ... read more
    Published on 2021-03-07
  • What to do when they say they need to break up to concentrate on their career.
    hey hey peg asks: I have been in a relationship for last 6 months and I really really love this guy and its pretty serious.It was going all good but just two days ago he told me that this is not gonna work out.  He would get distracted from his ... read more
    Published on 2021-03-01
  • Is it possible to trust someone completely?
    PERFECTION asks: When you fully trust someone does that mean you don’t get jealous anymore? What does it mean to really fully trust someone? Hi PERFECTION –             That’s a really great question.  I think there are two answers – and both are… yes.             Here’s what I’m thinking.  I ... read more
    Published on 2021-02-23
  • The Aquarian Apocalypse …a fable for our times…
                Certain kinds of stories transcend place and time.  For example, did you know that almost every land on Earth has some version of Cinderella, long before they’d have heard them from each other?              One that seems to show up in every culture that existed around the ancient Mediterranean ... read more
    Published on 2021-02-17
  • How to choose where to live when you each want different things
    Miss Pawco asks: I wish to seek some relationship advice from you and to gain a third person perspective apart from his or mine or any biased friend. I am a career oriented woman working in a metropolitan city and very much in love with city life. My boyfriend is currently ... read more
    Published on 2021-02-15
  • Should one share a gift with others?
    Maya asks: Hey Shirelle Are relationship gifts meant to be shared? For instance say I am in a relationship.  My boyfriend buys me something for our Anniversary, then I permit my sister wear it, or maybe she takes it without asking me, and I am like, very okay with sharing it. Tell ... read more
    Published on 2021-02-08