Sphumelele asks: I have a really huge crush on this guy, I befriended him and we’ve been hanging out a few times and he’s great company. I told him one day while we were texting that I’m crushing on him and his reply was, “we’ll talk when we get together again,” and that I shouldn’t be a coward by telling him this over the phone. Now my worst fear is that he might tell me he doesn’t feel the same, and it’s something I don’t want to hear looking at him rather a text or a phone call. How do I know he feels the same?
Hi Sphumelele – Ooooh, do I love crushes! They’re so much more fun than just friendships or even romances – they’re nothing but magic! Well, at least until the people actually start to speak. Then they become more… relationships. And that’s where you are. So Sphumelele, I ... read more