Snowball18 asks: My long distance boyfriend’s sister just died, and at the same time I came to know that he had lied to me about not having any girlfriends before me, and about being a virgin too. I am a virgin and this is my first relationship. I don’t know how to react to this – how and when should I tell him I know this?
Hi Snowball18 – Oh what a horrible story! I’m so sorry, about his loss and about this awful discovery. I think the answer to your question, though, is that you need to divide these two issues up clearly. And ask yourself what you’d do with each. Now ... read more