abcdefg asks: I had loved a person, but last year he cheated on me, and I got to know that he has many girlfriends, so we broke up. Then I was single, but last month I found out one of my friend had loved me for two years, so I accepted him, and now we are committed. I’m still 18 years old, and I recently joined a company for work. There the vice president is too interested in me, and always calls me. I feel like he loves me, but he has been married for four years. I don’t understand what to do – if I leave the job I can’t survive, and can’t study further. I am totally confused – what to do?

abcdefg asks: I had loved a person, but last year he cheated on me, and I got to know that he has many girlfriends, so we broke up. Then I was single, but last month I found out one of my friend had loved me for two years, so I accepted him, and now we are committed. I’m still 18 years old, and I recently joined a company for work. There the vice president is too interested in me, and always calls me. I feel like he loves me, but he has been married for four years. I don’t understand what to do – if I leave the job I can’t survive, and can’t study further. I am totally confused – what to do?
Hi abcdefg –     You bring up a number of things.  As far as the two guys you’ve gotten involved with, I say good riddance to the first one, and congratulations on the second one – though I’ll warn that eighteen’s a little young for total commitment.  You might ... read more
Published on 2018-06-18