Fehyii asks: I have a guy who loves me but I am not too sure I love him. I like all he does for me. I feel I should be patient for him to get mature and start to look good then have some money. I don’t want to leave a good guy but I don’t feel love for him. I had a crush on him first and I don’t want him to be hurt or see me in a whole different way (bad way) when I tell him it does not feel the same. I don’t know if I should just be patient and see how things turn out or just leave him. We are not in a relationship yet but he’s the told me times and over that he loves me.
Hi Fehyii – This is a tough situation. You’re liking the potential for this guy, but not turned on by what’s there now. As you say, you like all he does for you, but that’s not enough. If you were drawn to him, but just not feeling “in ... read more